Becoming a Woman of Intentional Words

“Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.”

Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)

I was perplexed about the growing distance and silence in our relationship. Until I received the email.

My friend took a brave step and let me know that she was feeling judgment and disapproval from me because of words I had spoken so she had put distance between us because she didn’t want to feel that way.

After spending a tearful day wondering what was wrong with me that I chased people off and berating myself for not being a good friend, I regrouped. I asked her what I said that caused such feelings.

The offending words weren’t confrontational words, or intended to be deliberately hurtful. I didn’t even remember them. They were uttered off-the-cuff, in casual, and passing conversation. Careless words spoken without any thought. There was never any intention to be judgmental or disapproving.

I was tempted to defend myself.

Have you ever been there?

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